The 1-OH!-1 Experience: Wicked View3/12/2014
For HIS Eyes Only - Week 10 - No. 31
Ingredients: (1) Mirror, Candles, Pillows
Every time our husbands or significant others tell us we are beautiful or sexy we usually rebuttal with "Oh, I'm so ____" or something similar. The truth is that no matter what we think of ourselves that special someone still finds us super attractive some days even more than the day we met. I'm super guilty of this one. So Wicked View was a little unnerving for me.
My husband asked me two questions "Where would you like the seduction to take place?" and "What's your favorite feature about yourself". I responded with "the bedroom probably" and "I don't know, what's your favorite feature about me". He said I was going to find out.
"Kiss her and caress her; tug her clothes off and roll around on the bed with her. Tell her how much she means to you. Tell her she’s beautiful. Tell her that you fall in love with her all over again every time you see her. Do not be embarrassed to praise her. She longs to hear those words. If you’re like most men, you probably don’t say them enough. She will want to believe them. But to completely convince her—to give her indisputable proof of how amazingly sexy she is—you’ve got to show her. Ask her to join you on the floor …" - Laura Corn "101 Nights of Great Sex
Sitting there talking with him about it in front of the mirror in the bedroom was even more unnerving. But I could see in his eyes everything he says it true. Each time he says I'm sexy or beautiful I now know I can 100% believe him because I saw a look in his eyes. This wasn't so much about sex as it was about being intimate and sharing yourself with each other and being vulnerable. But sometimes you need that in your relationship...that's intimacy, that's love.