My husband and I met in July of 2010 and our relationship has been one heck of a roller coaster since we met.  We welcomed our first daughter July of 2011, married September 2011 and welcomed our second daughter in October of 2012.  In between all of those life events have been two moves, two job changes and countless other life events.

Before we found out we were expecting our first daughter we were at it like rabbits!  I mean constantly!  If we weren't watching football or eating at Chipotle we were in the bedroom.  I'd say we were a five time a day kind of couple, lust definitely ruled our relationship in the beginning.  However, when we found out about our upcoming bundle of joy our sex life took an abrupt stop due to complications.  I suffered from Placenta Previa which when it is discovered you get put on an immediate sex halt for 6-8 weeks.  This didn't include the many complications I had with my pregnancies that just took all the sex out of our lives.  In between the births of our daughters we did engage in sex again but it just wasn't the same.  Contributing factors of PPD (Post-Partum Depression) did not help the cause after their births.  It was like my pregnancies had just taken all the wind out of my sails.  That "spark" I needed to get myself going just wasn't there.