Husband - it's your 32nd birthday and I am so thankful to be the one by your side celebrating it! Thank you for choosing me 4 years ago as we walk through life together. Everything we've celebrated and endured are things I'm beyond grateful to have you holding my hand through. You're my rock and best friend and I still wake up so in love with you, thankful for the encouragement, support and laughter you bring to my life daily! You have my whole heart, let's stay young and in love forever, okay? Actually, scratch that…I like growing old with you! Let’s do that instead.

I get a lot of comments from people claiming the hubster and I have a “perfect” marriage and things in our life look seamless and easy which in turn shocks me a little because I don't believe anyone has a perfect marriage. I do stand firmly thinking marriage is hard work and it's a choice to stay happy in it. There are always ups and downs in a relationship but if each person is constantly working, I believe it can be beautiful with many more blissful days than trying ones. Here are a few things hubby and I do for each other and our marriage.

For HER Eyes Only - Week 11 - No. 19

I personally believe spontaneous sex this the best.  But it can come with it's own set of planning.  I mean as women how many times do we think "Should we" or "Shouldn't we" before we actually do it?  However, the best part of spontaneous sex is well that our men don't expect it.

For HER Eyes Only - Week 11 - No. 100

It's probably no coincidence that on the man created holiday "Steak & BJ Day" I did Kitty Popsicle.  It was kind of fitting!  Have you ever heard of this holiday?  It's called the man's Valentine's Day and appropriately so considering that most men just want steak and BJ on Valentine's Day anyways.

For HIS Eyes Only - Week 10 - No. 31

Every time our husbands or significant others tell us we are beautiful or sexy we usually rebuttal with "Oh, I'm so ____" or something similar.  The truth is that no matter what we think of ourselves that special someone still finds us super attractive some days even more than the day we met.  I'm super guilty of this one.  So Wicked View was a little unnerving for me. 

For HER Eyes Only - Week 10 - No. 29

My husband must be getting super lucky on me continuing to pick these "Fifty Shades of Grey" seductions.  But I can't lie, they are really good and the results are even better!  I can honestly say that we do much better with these seductions when I'm the one planning it.  Not that my husband can't plan but more because I'm already a planner and I can control the details.  Plus my husband doesn't mind it when I'm a little more bossy in the bedroom (what man doesn't?).

For HIS Eyes Only - Week 9 - No. 24

My husband has been a little out of it.  Work has really been wearing on him so he hasn't had the "ummph" to do his seductions.  But that's one of the reasons we decided to blog our way through this was to show that life is well...life and not every moment of every day are you in the mood for sex.  One thing I wanted to address in this was that sometimes in these seductions it's hard to leave out all the good parts.  I want to maintain a discreteness but also keep the readers enticed.

For HER Eyes Only - Week 9 - No. 73

Valentine's Day must suck for guys!  I mean the pressure to get the dinner, the flowers, the gift and then think about if they MIGHT get lucky...phew, glad I'm not a male.  Most couples rarely get around to intimacy after Valentine's Day because you spend the whole day focusing on eating at nice restaurants, drinking nice wine and you are too tired from the craziness of the day to really think about sex.  That was NOT the case with this seduction.

For HIS Eyes Only - Week 8 - No. 4

How many times have you asked your husband for a massage and gotten "My hands hurts" or "Only if I get one in return"?  I mean what's better than a massage?  The answer...you are going to find out this weekend.

For HER Eyes Only - Week 8 - No. 58

Ladies!!! I am SO MAD! I had it all planned out to do My Dirty Valentine on Valentine's Day but then Mother Freakin' Nature ruined my life...and no, I don't mean snow!  Worst timing ever!  Because of this horrendous timing I was forced to pick another page from the book.  I did my best to chose one that sounded like it was going to be more on the oral side of things this time to make sure hubby got properly taken care of on the most romantic holiday of the year.

For HER Eyes Only - Week 7 - No. 35

Do you remember when you first got together...everything was fresh and new and you just couldn't get enough of each other? Quickies happened first thing in the morning and at lunch and at night before bed or even at 3 AM?  I remember those days and I loved them!  Sometimes being spontaneous and just having a quickie is hard these days.

For HIS Eyes Only - Week 7 - No. 61

Men are great!  I mean you help around the house, you fix things and you pamper us with love and affection.  But like most men you usually leave random dishes around the house, work a lot of hours to provide for us and never want to help clean the bathroom.  However, the one thing most men do that bugs women is that you don't communicate.

For HER Eyes Only - Week 6 - No. 13

Sex comes in all styles.  Quickies, Slow and passionate and numerous other ways.  One that most men really love is actually two little numbers 69.  It's easy and delicious!  Because it takes so little physical effort, you can do it for as long as you like.  It ends only because you are ready for it to end.

For HIS Eyes Only - Week 6 - No. 7

When I got the email from my hubby to show up with two nickels (or in our case quarters) in the bedroom...I was extremely inquisitive.  When he responded with "they are the admission to my game"...I got even more inquisitive.  Who knew games were so cheap...and sexy!  Who knew how many erogenous zones we had?  I mean men focus on one but women have dozens!!  And let me tell you...it was impossible not to feel like I hadn't paid enough admission for these games!

For HER Eyes Only - Week 5 - No. 6

I can't lie, most days my husband knows to expect a call from me if I haven't heard from him by 5:30-6pm.  This call is mostly to find out if he's left work so that I can start dinner.  Since his work is about an hour away I use that time to prep and cook a wonderful meal for him to come home.  This call is also followed by a "let me know when your 20 minutes away so that I can start plating food". 

When we decided to blog our way through Laura Corn's New-York Times Best Selling book "101 Nights of Great Sex" we knew we had to be honest.  Not just with the readers but with ourselves.  That was a long conversation.  Being honest can be hard, especially when you are putting it out there for the world and others to read and judge.  But hey, that's why I started this blog.  To share my life and my journey.

For HER Eyes Only - Week 4 - No. 30

Recently, the new Royals like Kate and Pippa have made pantyhose hot again.  Not the kind you are thinking of, the thick and matte support hose but the sheer, nude and buttery.  In America, we have been turning our noses up at pantyhose for years but over in Europe they love them.  I've never before thought of pantyhose to be sexy but it also turns out that men love them!  They love them in the way that they are reminded of their school teachers who used to wear them, don't kid yourself those ladies were the first to arouse our men.  Men think about secretaries, school teachers and prom dates when they see pantyhose, long legs with a shiny finish...it's a turn on for them. 

For HIS Eyes Only - Week 5 - No. 97

Sometimes the best thing you can do for a relationship is to just make each other orgasm.  Fortunately, in this day and age with all the toys and online shops and adult stores in towns that's easier than ever.  When hubby came home from work on Friday he had a gift wrapped box just for me. We share a bank account so I knew he'd been to some sort of adult store but what he bought was a mystery and had me intrigued.  Again, the thoughts of what are we going to do, what did he buy for me ran through my head.

For HIS Eyes Only - Week 4 - No. 1

At it's core, this seduction is about attention.  Complete and total focus on your partner's sensual satisfaction.  It also involves an awesome skin treatment so it's kind of like going to the spa, what woman wouldn't love that?  Most of us have the ingredients right in our home so it's free...even better!